Choosing your attorney-in-fact for your power of attorney and healthcare agent in your advance directive (sometimes overlapping with a living will or medical power of attorney) is one of the most important decisions you can make, whether you're planning for your later years or simply protecting your estate. Ideally, the person(s) you choose should have several qualities which can reassure you that your legacy is in safe hands. Here are a few traits to look for as you prepare to make your decision.
The most important quality your attorney-in-fact or healthcare agent should have is trustworthiness and an established reputation for honesty. If you’re choosing from among your friends and family, you probably already know someone who can be trusted to make difficult decisions with your welfare in mind. Before you decide, however, reflect on their past behavior and decide whether you truly believe they’ll follow your wishes and act in your favor.
Although your representative doesn’t have to be a medical professional, some basic knowledge of medicine and medical procedures is a favorable characteristic.
This can mean choosing someone with prior medical training, although it can be just as beneficial to choose a friend or relative who learns quickly, knows how to conduct research, and who will ask pertinent questions of doctors if you become sick or injured. They should also be assertive and knowledgeable enough to challenge doctors’ opinions or recommended treatments if they don’t feel these treatments are in your best interest.
As when choosing a lawyer or any other representative, you should look for someone with good organizational skills and the ability to relay your needs to those around them. A well-meaning friend who’s unable to clearly articulate their concerns and your wishes may not be able to secure for you the outcomes you need or desire in a medical or legal emergency. The person you choose should be able to make their point clearly, concisely, quickly, and assertively while maintaining cordial and respectful relations with those they meet.
When you’re ready to choose your attorney-in-fact and healthcare agent, turn to Trailhead Estate Planning for help formalizing important arrangements. Based in Signal Mountain, TN, this attorney tailors legal preparations for emergencies, late-life care, and other situations. To learn more about how he can help, call Peter Harrison at (423) 228-7029, or visit the website for more information.
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